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Do My Loved Ones Know the pain I am feeling?

Dear Bonnie: Do my loved ones on the other side know the pain I am going through? And will they help me? Thanks, Carmel

Dear Carmel, your loved ones in Heaven see everything and with a much bigger picture than they ever had here on Earth. They see everything, the pain, the hurt, the happy times, the sad times, the times you cry out to them. They are heavenly beings now, and not only do your loved ones hear and see you, but God, Jesus, and the Angels, your guides and master teachers, all of whom are your heavenly team, know what you are going through in every moment.

You wonder why, then why they cannot make everything easier for you and me? Your Loved ones and the Divine are always watching over you, protecting you, and offering guidance, sending you signs in all kinds of synchronicity’s hoping and praying you are open to receiving them. However, we all have God’s free will. And with that comes choices.

These choices are choices only we can make for our life’s journey. Without this ability to make these choices on our own, our life would be controlled, and that’s not why we are here. We are here at this time and in this life because we choose to come into this lifetime, into this body, and even choosing our parents for the Soul’s purpose of learning. Learning how to be better, kind, loving, and many other lessons so our Souls can grow, expand, and do better each time we take this journey called life.

Every time our Soul grows, we move forward on our Soul’s journey. We expand into a new way of seeing. Although it must be hard for our loved ones to watch us go through this lifetime at times, they know that we must make these choices for ourselves. That does not mean that they turn a blind eye to what is happening in our lives or the pain that we are feeling. That means that they try even harder to get those signs to you and nudge you toward you seeing them. Suddenly you find a white feather or smell that special cologne your dad used to wear; you know that smell of old spice, and your dad knows that when you smell this scent, you will think of him and know that he is around you heavenly giving you a hug.

That is how we now have conversations with our loved ones and Divine team. Life is full of sad times, but it is also full of beautiful, happy, loving times, and we need to remember those times as well, especially when we are in pain and need support. My mom would always tell me to say my prayers. I feel and know our prayers are heard, not always answered the way we might think they should be, but the way God knows best. Try to remember that this, too, shall pass. Fill your heart with love so that the sadness doesn’t linger for too long, and soon your loved ones' memories will be the stories you share with others and those that bring a smile to your face.

Bonnie Page is an intuitive psychic medium and the owner of Mystical Magical Marketplace and Messages from Heaven, located in Winchendon, Mass. Bonnie is a full-time professional medium offering in-person and Zoom readings. If you would like to ask Bonnie a question for her column, please visit For more information about Bonnie and what she offers, please visit her website

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